Monday, September 27, 2010

RUSSIAN!!!

SATURDAY:

    Saturday was chaotic, but lots of fun! A little after 8 am Meredith came over to my apartment, so that we could make it to her Russian tutor's apartment by 9.  Her tutor lives in another part of town, so I was able to see a little bit more of Chisinau through the window of our racing rutiera (minibus)!   Her tutor is a very nice Moldovan lady.  We met at her apartment, a small clean, modern space.   Hopefully, I'll be taking lessons from her soon!   Her mother had recently moved in with them (after spending eight years in Italy), and while they were working and I was reading, she brought us some warm drinks.  It was steamed milk with honey and some sort of spice or tea.  Heavenly!!! Seriously, I'm going to figure out how to make that.  

   After the lesson we were supposed to head to one of the villages outside of Chisinau.  Despite Adriana's best efforts at calling us a cab, we missed the eleven o'clock bus and had to wait until 12:30. We spent the time going through the central marketplace, a very large market with just about everything. Meredith showed me the craft market too.  This is where I'll go to get some authentic Moldovan souvenirs.....but don't get to many hopes up.  There really aren't any touristy things.  I saw a few keychains, but I've yet to see postcards or other standard tourism items.  We'll see though.  The tastiest stop was at the Green Hills.  This one was quite a bit smaller than the one near my apartment, and more of a bakery than a full grocery store.  We picked out some cookies to take to the family we were heading to visit, as well as a pastry and drink for each of us.  I had some kind of shortbread type pastry with a light creme and orange, kiwi, and pineapple on the top.  De-lish!   We purchased some bread in the market for the family, and made it to our bus on time.  

  Fourty-five minutes later we were in a Russian-speaking village.  A young girl ran out and exclaimed delightfully, "Meredit!  Meredit!"  This was the ten year old daughter of the couple we were visiting.  The dad (T) is a carpenter, and the mom (N) teaches.  They have another daughter, 9, and a son, 6 or 7.  This family lives in a two room home.  The conditions are quite poor by western standards, but they have sturdy furniture (thanks to T's workmanship) and indoor plumbing.  The mom had been quite busy putting together masa (a large meal shared with guests) for us.  The little boy was eager to show "Meredit" his school work and his good grades.  

T led us back to the workshop he had recently finished.  He built the cinderblock rectangular building complete with wooden beams and a tin roof all by himself.  Inside the workshop, a couple of beams crossed the floor.  They were covered in the fine dust a saw leaves behind, and clearly there to support his most recent piece of work.  He showed us some of the doors that he built.  Absolutely beautiful pieces, carefully constructed with a elegant, yet contemporary design.  He cut, assembled, and stained each piece.  He also showed us some cabinet doors he had stained, and some pieces he was refurbishing.  The front yard of T and N's home was lost under a spread of cinderblocks; these will one day complete the new house that T is building for his family.  It may take a while though, as he is workly late into the night on his woodwork and saving to pay for the house without a loan.  

Despite their seemingly humble conditions, T and N are able to enjoy some modern conveniences.  We spent a good bit of time before Masa on the internet browsing for a second laptop for T.  Having a good laptop would greatly assist him in marketing his business. 

Masa was held in the backyard under the limbs of a mimosa (?) tree.  A shipping palette resting on crates served as our table and we sat on small stools and sideways tubs.  We stood in a circle holding hands while T prayed in Russian over the meal.  N had prepared some incredibly delicious dishes for us.  The main course was stuffed peppers.  Yellow and red peppers were filled with rice, carrots, chicken, onion, and other vegetables and boiled in a pot of water.  They were tender and juicy.  We were instructed to put sour cream on top of them (Moldovan sour cream is thinner than ours), and the first time T shook his head and chided us for not putting enough on them!  My favorite dish was an eggplant sandwich.  N had cut eggplant shortways and then pan-fried them.  Then she placed some tomato chunks on top and poured a little garlic mayonnaise (that she pressed and mixed herself) on top, then repeated the process with a second layer.  These eggplant creations then would go on top of a piece of bread.  I liked it just as much by itself as on the bread, though.  The fresh grapes disappeared quickly!  We also had another eggplant dish that was cooked eggplant mixed with onions, also normally with sour cream.  The kids got up and played, but Meredith and I talked with T and N for awhile longer.  We had hot tea and some cookies, and then she gently urged us to try the sunflower spread she had made.  "It might not look that good, but it is pretty good," she told us. "It's crushed up sunflower seeds mixed with butter."  It looked like pesto, but had a nutty, slightly sweet taste, almost like pistachio.  That's going on my list of dishes to make!  

After Masa we climbed up the sloping hill in the back to play with the kids and get a better view of the village.  It was a farming community, but unlike in the states where each farmer owns a large field, these farmers own strips of each field.  During the Soviet era, the government owned the farms and the people worked the  farms for a small salary.  When the farms were privatized, fields were divided in narrow strips among the people.  Though they still have very little land, N assured me that the farmers' lives were much better owning the land than when working for the government.  T and N also grow have some fruit trees as well.  We played futbol with the kids for a little while before heading down to catch our bus back into town.  I guess its a natural thing in farming communities around the world to share with your friends and guests some of the products of your harvest.  At any rate, Natasha insisted that Meredith and I each take a jar of the jam she had made and a jar of a tomato, onion, pepper, mix she had made.  I'm told it will be great over bread in the winter.  N and T were so enthusiastic and generous.  It was humbling to be able to spend time with them and hear their dreams.  They are hardworking people with tender hearts, and I look forward to spending more time with them in the future.


Once back in the city, Meredith and I had to prepare for another celebration.  Her Moldovan friends were coming to my apartment for another send-off celebration for Meredith.  I'm so glad we had my apartment to gather at!   We met up with Evelina at the handy Green Hills to pick up our supplies for a fajita night.  Another friend, Nina, was waiting at my apartment when we got back.  The girls were so great and helped me get the place cleaned a bit more before the other girls arrived.  We had a lot of fun squished into my tiny kitchen chopping up tomatoes, Nina and I crying from slicing onions, Evelina cooking the chicken and peppers, and learning about each other's lives. We attempted to make salsa, and while it must have been good for the rate at which it disappeared, we didn't have the spices Meredith and I would have liked to give the girls a true taste of American salsa.  We ate in my living room, and they shared how they met Meredith and some of their memories.  We tried out my hotpot and "fixed" coffee and tea to go with our Chisinau cake (a local cake with twelve yummy layers...light and slightly sweet).  The girls were so funny comparing my accent to Meredith's Chicago accent.  My Southern accent is pretty mild, but sometimes there's no denying it, such as when I said I was going to "fix some coffee."  Apparently they don't say that in Chicago, but then they also pronounce the "l" in folks and don't use the word "tote" either :)   

Off to sleep now, dear friends!   I'll share about church and my trip to the "Policlinica" later :)

~ Redeemed

Summary of My Chaotic Weekend

We did so much this weekend!  Meredith, the intern I'm replacing, has been so incredibly helpful through this entire process and continued by showing me everything and introducing me to all her friends this weekend.  Brandon, the intern I'll be working with, was shocked at how much we got accomplished.  he said it took about two weeks for him to do all that we did with my apartment...thankfully I'm not living on eggs and milk like he was :)

I'm going to give a brief summary of each day, for my brain's sake as much as for your information, and I'll give details later....I should probably sleep tonight!

THURSDAY:

    Arrived at 1 pm and was greeted by Meredith with a lovely bouquet of flowers (a very traditional gift in Moldova).  We went straight to my new apartment and met my landlady and landlord and Meredith's friend, Evelina, who helped out so much with finding the apartment. Brandon met us at the apartment and was gentlemanly enough to drag my 69 lb. suitcase up seven flights of Soviet stairs to the fourth floor.   I paid for a week (the end of September) and a month's rent, the week's rent was good sign of my landlady's honesty.  She was also so kind to make up my bed for me and leave some dishes and toilet paper.  The neighbors' son came over and offered to go ahead and set up my wireless.  Between him and Brandon, my internet was working within about 30 minutes (definitely a blessing).

   Once my landlady and her husband left, we went first to withdraw some Moldovan lei (their currency) and then to a pizza place for lunch.  We devoured a mushrooms and capers pizza, Hawaiian pizza, and another pizza while we got to know each other.  Two notes:  the pizzas are much smaller than ours' so don't think we were that famished, and these people deserve respect simply for helping so much before we even really knew each other.

  Then we headed off to the market to get a cellphone for me.  I think it ended up costing about $30 USD including my minutes.  We went to a different market to find an adapter for me.  Then I got to tour the supermarket, Green Hills.  We picked up a few things for me and then Meredith and I went back to my apartment.  We spent a long time talking about what we've been learning over the past year, and Meredith shared a lot with me about her time in Moldova.  It was really nice to get to spend this time actually getting to know the person I'd been emailing back and forth with for a month.  She also approved of my packing and said I brought the right things :)


FRIDAY:

  This day was a bit shorter, as I slept until 2 pm, but I even with the lack of sleep on the plane, the jetlag kept me up really late.  I got cleaned up and situated a bit more, and then went in to the office around 4 pm.  Brandon gave me directions, and I was pretty excited to have the chance to navigate around by myself for a little bit.  It took ten minutes tops for me to make it to the office.  I definitely have a great location.  My first hour in the office was spent on a conference call with some of our partners who are planning a retreat for the Invest Credit staff and a group of American volunteers that will be coming as well.

  After work, we headed by Meredith's apartment, then mine, and finally we met up with Brandon, a peace corp volunteer, and a Moldovan friend to head to "the Center" (basically the downtown of Chisinau).  We went to one of the really nice restaurants where we met up with two other Americans for Meredith's send-off party.  It was a neat restaurant.  Most people were fairly dressed up, but foreigner status apparently gives us some leeway....  There was what seemed to be an anniversary party going on on one side of the upper floor.  Middle aged couples dressed as if for prom danced and danced.  It was fun to watch; Meredith and Pascha even got to join in on the last bit of the national Moldovan dance!
The food was pretty good too.  I had a delicious spinach soup.  I love all the vegetables here!

After the send-off dinner, we made our way down to an Irish pub to play darts.  I have a whole year to practice at dart-throwing, and trust me, I need the practice :P  As interesting as finding an Irish pub in Eastern Europe was, we were more amused by the three widescreen tvs on the walls.  They were playing American and British music videos, really awful ones to be honest, and all of the commercials were in English.  Definitely out of place for Moldova.  We finished off the night with a stop at the Rock-n-Roll Club.   I was looking forward to coffee and some of the group was looking forward to hookah (Pascha and I weren't interested in that part).  We were able to grab seats pretty quickly, but the service was about as slow as the demise of the Cold War.  Meredith and I were anticipating some apple cake and   a pot of black tea, but they didn't have any of their deserts (or any hookah, lol)!  So we ordered some fries instead.  The guys ran over to McDonald's and came back in just a few minutes.  Despite the lack of service, it was an interesting place filled with posters of Russian and Romanian bands mixed with a few western groups.  Seemed like a popular local favorite for sure.

Back at my apartment,  I still managed to stay up late.  The late hours of the night here though, seem to be the best time to catch anyone back home on skype.


   

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Left on Lufthansa!

Well, I'm in Moldova!!!  Amazingly, I arrived only an hour later than planned.  The only delay was on my flight from Munich to Chisinau.  My dearest best friend from home, Rachel, met my parents and I at the airport. Mr. Roy and Reid also came along for the send-off.  I'll be honest, it didn't hit me until we were dragging all 120+ pounds of my luggage into the airport that I was actually leaving!

Blessing to Note:  I was mentally prepared for an overweight, oversized extra bag fee of around $100. Turns out my second bag, at 69 lbs., just made into the first tier of extra baggage (< 70 lbs.) and only cost an extra $50.

Oddity to Note:  The flight attendant on my flight from Charlotte to Munich clearly became bored with her job the first week.  She was so dynamic when discussing the safety procedures and added so many oddly timed intonations that, at the end of her presentation, the guy next to me commented, "I feel like we should give her a round of applause."

Wierdest Travel Plans of the Day:  In searching for an outlet in the Charlotte airport to plug my laptop into, I ended up sitting with a couple headed to Paris.  Of course in true Southern fashion (and I have definitely discovered that this is one of those Southern charms), I started talking with them.  The girl does research for a university on micro-vessels, micro blood vessels to be exact, and she is heading to a world congress on micro-vessels.  We shared a laugh about each embarking on a "micro-focused" adventure.

Most Interesting Character of the Day:  Lonnie.  My new Albanian friend.  Yep,  we sat next to each other from Charlotte to Munich - my longest flight - and shared our reasons for our trip.  Lonnie was headed back to Albania for the first time in three years.  His parents and brothers are all there still.  He said he was the youngest; all his brothers are married and have children.  Inquisitively I responded, "No wife?  You need to find an Albanian girl!"  His answer, "I was the lucky one.  I got to go to America."  Lonnie drives a truck for a living, his reason for not having met a wife yet.  Just being honest, truck-driving isn't exactly my dream career...or on my list of back-up career plans, yet he was so grateful for the opportunity.  It blew me away.  I'm so humbled to have been born an American and afforded so many opportunities, and I'm grateful that I'll only be away from my family for a year....

Cutest Character of the Day:  Eighteen month old on the bus from the airport in Munich to our plane to Chisinau.  Precious little boy, would grab my hand and try to speak to me.  I would wiggle my fingers and talk to him and he would bust out laughing!  Such fun :)  His mom said he never acts like that....guess she's got a flirt coming on, lol.

Oh the Futile Plans of Man....

In only TWO days, I'll be boarding a plane ready to embark on this next adventure!  It's hard to believe its so soon, but I'm ready for it to be real.  Not just reading emails, itineraries, and summaries of the economic situation.

I've been constantly reminded as the planning has proceeded of how futile our plans can be.  If you catch me saying, "I'm hoping or hopefully," its because I realize that no matter how much I plan the Lord ordains my steps.  His plans are always better than mine!   

   "Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the LORD that will stand." 
                                                                                                          Proverbs 19:21